So, I have a question or two, for anyone bold enough to answer me...

I've been having a discussion with another mistress I know, and we have very different approaches about a few things, so here are my questions...

1) Does domination REQUIRE a certain level of harshness and crudeness?

2) Does soft sensuality equal submission, or can it be dominant?

She and I agree that there must be a degree of caring, perhaps you would call it love, in order to truly dominate someone, but we disagree when it comes to these two questions. I'm interested in hearing your reactions and answers, faithful reader...